Have you ever wondered why a person who has a new short hair cut would be asked whether s/he failed? Many Thai story films demonstrate such belief. For example, "Close-friend," which elucidates an intimate relationship between a couple - male and female - who has been studying in the same class for four years, witnesses this idea. While a man falls in love his close friend, but never let her know, she consideres him as solely a friend with whom she can share everything. His love has been kept in his mind like a skelaton in the closset for several years! After finishing his final exam in the last year, he expresses to her that "I love you." She feels very surprised and she replies: "Why have you just told me at this time?" It implies that it might be too late to inform her because her soul is not empty.
A man walks from Chiangmai University to train station and ride a train to Bangkok, suddently. It might be the longest distance in his life that he has ever walked! When arriving at Bangkok, he has his hair cut as a new military man and takes a journey to the Southern part of Thailand. You can guess that where his soul is; correctly, it is still staying in Chiangmai. After getting an injure from an accident, he meets a nurse, namely Nui, who falls in love him instantly. Even though he still loves the former one, he decides to choose the latter whom he considers that she whole-heartedly dedicates herself to his life. I think it is the right call!
However, I still wonder why we have to have our hair cut after we are dissappointed with the love or hope. Do we want to change our own characteristics or outlook? Supposedly, I have been in the same boat with this man, I cannot percieve the point that I have to do likewise as the story mentioned above! Actually, love is all around the world. If you cannot complete your love mission with whoever, you should have learnt to love the new one.
Pertinently, you might have to learn to love youself! Don't let anyone be influent on your life! Love yourself!
2 comments:
Agree with you. Thanks for sharing this story :)
Thank you very much for visiting my blog too. Maybe, I have come aross such situation in recentl years!
It was very sad for a while but subsequently, I acknowledged that it was very useless to love someone who had never paid attention to me. As a result, I have learnt to love myself and share my love without any wish to the poeple around me! I found that it is very cool to my soul!
Consequently, I will share my love to everyone equally as my sister-brotherhood!
Hope that everyone will have a Happy New Year 2007!
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